| Location | Southampton |
| Age | 16 days |
| Cause of Death | Not Listed? |
| Date of Birth | 30/09/2004 |
| Date of Death | 16/10/2004 |
| Visitors | 2,805 since 18/11/2007 |
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my sons name was Morgan Davey he was 16 days old when he died he was born 18 weeks early. He has 4
brothers 1 sister he had a massive bleed to his brain he was so tinny he weighed 1lb he was on a
life support machine all his life. the doctors said he would never talk walk go toilet by him self
they said he would have been a cabbage the gave me a choice i could keep him alive by the ventilator
and see what happens or i could turn the machine off i said they was not turning it off his eyes
where still fused together so small so help less then on the 12th of oct he opened his eyes they
where beautiful i couldn't stand to see the pain in them so that was the day he made my decision for
me i turned the machine off there is not a day that goes bye where i feel i made the wrong decision
the hospital told me it was for the best and i made the right decision i think i did not so that is
how he died he means the world to me there are times where i want to take my own life and be with
him but i have other children as well but i cant kiss them from heaven as i love him so much and i
wish he was here his eyes where bright blue his hands where as small as my thumb nail his feet
were so tiny he was perfect i need him so much and he needed me and i felt that i had let him down
the doctors told me when i turn the machine off they he would not be with me much longer they said
about 10 min because he was not strong enough to cope on his own well he lasted 4 hours about an
hour of turning the machine off i said i could not do it put him back on they said that they cant
because they have put to much morphine in him so i said it to late i fell he did not want to go
because why did he stay alive for 4 hours and not 10 min so i did i let him down i love you so much
morgan and I'm SORRY
You are a very brave Mummy. The hardest thing in the world must be to let a little one go. Morgan is at peace now and will always be with you.
You didn't let Morgan down at all. You did what you thought was best and that is all you can do. Don't punish yourself and just remeber he's with you always and will never leave you. God bless.
mothers love
the hardest thing in this life we ever have to do is let our children go,as painful as it is you did what you did out of love for morgan ,that can never be wrong.being an outsider l see it a little different maybe morgan hung on that bit longer so you got that special time with him. this record is everybody hurts sums it all up,my son chose it for his funeral.it was his anniversary yesterday.
l think you are a wonderful mum and a brave one at that. when l was asked about resussitation for lee l also said not to ,because l coulnt bear him to be in anymore pain,l was lucky it didnt come to that in the end but the fact l said no still remains.always remember that saying no was the ultimate show of love for your son as was mine. l would rather have this pain than my precious boy suffer,its the price we pay for love ,its the price we pay for being a mum the hardest job of all.take care thinking of and your little morgan love marie x
An Angel's Kiss
We never stop to measure
anything we might just miss
But if the wind should blow by softly
You'll feel an Angel's Kiss.
A Kiss that's sent from Heaven
A Kiss from up above
A Kiss that's very special
From someone that you love.
For in your pain and sorrow
A Kiss will help you through
This Kiss is very private
For it's meant for only you.
So when your heart is heavy
And filled with tears and pain
And no-one can console you
Remember once again.
About the one you grieve for
And so sadly miss
That gentle breeze you took for granted
Was your Angel's Kiss.
You never let your son down you love him that is everything you are a brave young lady god bless Morgan and love to you xxx
My grief is like a river,
I have to let it flow,
But I myself determine,
Just where the banks will go...
Some days the current takes me
In waves of guilt and pain
But there are always quiet pools
Where I can rest again...
I crash on rocks of anger
My faith seems faint indeed
But there are other swimmers
Who know just what I need...
There are loving hands to hold me
When the waters are too swift
And someone kind to listen
When I just seem to drift...
Grief's river is a process
Of relinquishing the past
By swimming in Hope's channels
I'll reach the shore at last...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
happy birthday to you
happy birthday to you
happy bithday baby morgan
happy birthday to you
"Angel"
Tear drops, slow and steady,
The pain so real and true,
God took another angel,
And that angel, dear, was you.
Angel wings, upon the clouds,
Your body softly sleeps,
Hush now little angel,
No more tears you have to weep.
Little prayers,are sent to you,
The short life you led;
Your family will never forget you,
So rest your little head.
I know God will look after you,
Now you are truly alive,
Your spirit soars beyond the moon,
Your legacy will survive.
You’re beautiful, you’re endless,
Now stretch your wings and fly,
Your loved by so many,
It will never be goodbye.
Close your pretty eyes,
No more tears,just go and rest,
Let your soul lie peacefully,
we know you did your best.
missing you my babe
missing you my babe
there is not a day that goes by
it your birthday tomorrow
and i wanna see the twinckle in your eye
wanna come see u
spend what should be a happy day
i miss u very much
no one can take that away
wanna hold u when you fall
wipe the tears from your eyes
theres not a day i wish for
to hear you laughth and to hear you cry
your the star up in the sky
that shines brighter than the rest
you know why that is
because your the very best
missing ya my babe love you so much
God Bless
Morgan was took away for a reason hun and it's not your fault. He is in heaven now and up there they have no blame, only love. He knows why you did it and wouldnt want you holding this against yourself. One day you will see him again, but til then you have to carry on, with him by your side keeping you safe. He loves you so much xxx
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