| Location | Southampton |
| Age | 16 days |
| Cause of Death | Not Listed? |
| Date of Birth | 30/09/2004 |
| Date of Death | 16/10/2004 |
| Visitors | 2,807 since 18/11/2007 |
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my sons name was Morgan Davey he was 16 days old when he died he was born 18 weeks early. He has 4
brothers 1 sister he had a massive bleed to his brain he was so tinny he weighed 1lb he was on a
life support machine all his life. the doctors said he would never talk walk go toilet by him self
they said he would have been a cabbage the gave me a choice i could keep him alive by the ventilator
and see what happens or i could turn the machine off i said they was not turning it off his eyes
where still fused together so small so help less then on the 12th of oct he opened his eyes they
where beautiful i couldn't stand to see the pain in them so that was the day he made my decision for
me i turned the machine off there is not a day that goes bye where i feel i made the wrong decision
the hospital told me it was for the best and i made the right decision i think i did not so that is
how he died he means the world to me there are times where i want to take my own life and be with
him but i have other children as well but i cant kiss them from heaven as i love him so much and i
wish he was here his eyes where bright blue his hands where as small as my thumb nail his feet
were so tiny he was perfect i need him so much and he needed me and i felt that i had let him down
the doctors told me when i turn the machine off they he would not be with me much longer they said
about 10 min because he was not strong enough to cope on his own well he lasted 4 hours about an
hour of turning the machine off i said i could not do it put him back on they said that they cant
because they have put to much morphine in him so i said it to late i fell he did not want to go
because why did he stay alive for 4 hours and not 10 min so i did i let him down i love you so much
morgan and I'm SORRY
Morgan
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Carla, you are not alone.....
Carla, my sincere condolences for your loss. It takes a special bond between 2 souls to be able to see the words unspoken. Just one fleeting look can speak a thousand words. My sister gave me a look which told me she had had enough - She was ready. The decision to turn off her life support was mine and mine alone. Grief never subsides, you just become stronger and more capable to deal with it. God bless you all and sleep peacefully Morgan. xx
awc sweetie dont think like that. my mam(margaret scott) was on life support for a few weeks when the docs told us there was nothing more they could do. we all decided it was for the best to switch it off and let her go. she stayed for a few hours then slipped away, i see it as she was saying goodbye by herslf with out the machines.
be proud of your little angel for staying with you for so long.
my heart goes out to you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
god bless
carla i know u did the right thing for him you well see him soon one day babe i am here for u aways love sherry xxxxx
i think what you did was right love dont ever think any diffrent never let a child suffer, my brother {barry butcher} suffered most of his life he died last september he has a site on here, please dont get me wrong i love him so much and miss him every day but im glad he suffers no more.morgan is happy now no pain no suffering you did right, morgan i hope you find my barry, have fun darling god bless you look over mummy she is hurting so much, my love to you all,xx sleep tight darling xxxxxx
im so sorry for your loss
he will be shining over you and thanking you for the choice you made for him. the second you made that choice you gave him wings to fly and make a better life for himself up in heven. he will looking down on you making sure you are safe like you made sure he was safe.
Keep shining
god bless
xx xx xx
Sweetheart please don't tear yourself apart, you made the right decision for your baby and you will see him again, but that will be in God's time. Please stay strong for your family, they are probably feeling desperate knowing the agony you are going through. Love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxxx
its the hardest decision you will ever have to make,but the right one,i know because we had to make the same decision and you can't describe the pain and agony and helplessness you feel at having to let go of somebody you brought into the world.our babies will always be in our hearts and watching over us.
lots of love to you.
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hi hun...don't blame yourself...you did the best thing a mummy could give to her baby...
i wish i could do somthing to help ease your pain but we both know there's nothing that could take away the pain of loosing a baby...
hugs
liriam
DON.T WORRY YOU DONE THE RIGHT THING FOR YOUR LITTLE SON,GOD LOOKED AROUND HIS GARDEN
AND FOUND AN EMPTY SPACE
THEN HE LOOKED DOWN UPONTHIS EARTH
AND SAW HIS TRIED FACE
HE PUT HIS ARMS AROUND HIM
THEN LIFTED HIM TO REST
GOD,S GARDEN MUST BE BEAUTIFUL
HE ONLY TAKES THE BEST.
ALL MY LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR KIDS XXXXX
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